Saturday, February 28, 2009

Who knew Facebook could bring therapy!


So lets catch up on the last couple days..but in point form.....

Thursday
* Worked 6:30 till 3pm, work was ok
* Met Pascal after work cause he was off, he got to go the hill, lucky duck!
* We went on a beautiful winter walk through the camp ground and took beautiful pictures like this one here. Pas is a good guide, plus I got to stare at his bum as he walked ahead of me :)
* Pascal and I went for dinner at Fanny and Bernd's, really good (Note to self: German cook's take offence when you don't finish all your dinner)
* Went back and watched part of Princess Mononokie with Pascal (good movie!)

Friday
* Worked again 6:30 till 3pm, work again was ok
* Came home and went skating with Ashly for a bit (ice sucked though)
* Hung out with Ashly at home, later joined by Ryan
* Ryan and I went to dance night (which also sucked) but met up with Katie. Stayed for almost an hour than left, went to B & G, stayed for 5 mins than went home.
* I chilled with Pascal and others as we celebrated Dylan's last night here in LL(he'll be back but we'll be gone)
* Pascal and I watched the rest of Princess Mononokie

What I failed to mention was that I got a charming email from Paula yesterday. I wrote her saying that she didn't need to worry about paying her share of the power bill since she never even bothered to write back and address the issue. I said that I was a little disapointed since it wasn't my bill to pay. She wrote back " This whole thing has been a disappointment and still is and I didn't realize how much I'd miss Parkland so when I heard the power bill wasn't paid I got a surprise and then I thought I'm not dealing with this.And another thing, your mom said everything will be ok, but it 's not. This move was way harder on me than I thought.I don't need any nasty words so don't bother responding because I'm putting this out of my mind. Maybe you'll remember this if you ever have roomates again! "
At this point I am Pissed Off! I decided not to bite my tounge anymore and this is what I wrote back! ....

Well guess what I am responding cause I am mad! Paula you are a nice person and I enjoyed living with you most of the time but i'm sorry, I carried you when we lived together, I'm sorry to say. Yeah we shared on the cleaning but I organized the bill payments, I found ALL THE ROOMMATES, I put up with most of the stress living there! I got us both out of financial trouble by finding roommates.!I'm sorry Paula, your just angry cause there was no one there to carry you! I feel bad saying it but maybe if I say it than at least you will know what it was like for me. You are acting like a child and not at all like the smart 31 year old I know you are! You hate change and pissed off cause my moving out forced you to change your life! You never had to move out but you got too confused and too scared cause you couldn't organize it on your own. You bad mouth me to my friends and guess what they tell me cause they are MY FRIENDS AND YOU JUST DON'T DO THAT!!! I made you sign a receipt cause that is what you are supppose to do when you give money to someone! I don't care if you read all this or not but I'm telling you how I feel cause I think you need to GROW UP! I'm sorry Paula, I didn't mean for this to effect our friendship cause I do think you are a really nice person and wish you all the best!

I was so mad at the time but it felt really good to say how I felt! I had been bottling it up for awhile but I needed to say it and, if she reads it, she needs to hear it.

So today I am going to work for 2:30pm and than after that, it's my weekend!!! Yay!!! Going to Calgary tomorrow to shop and go see the Calgary vs Tampa bay game with Pas and some other people from work. Should be fun! Well I should run and have a shower :)

1 comment:

  1. So glad you told her off hun! Doubt it'll change anything except her opinions of you (how will you sleep at night?), but how she can think mild discomfort is a giant burden directed at HER is just beyond words! She's probably upset because now it's harder for her to stalk that bus driver, haha! Pathetic.

    Gorgeous picture! I see you didn't take one of Pascal's ass... tee hee. Hugs!

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